Broken Heart through Divorce

Divorce often leaves people with a broken heart. However, accepting that everything is over is a key to move on. Allow time to heal the wounds. Gradually, you will begin to accept the reality that your husband/wife has walked out of your life.

Remember there is always a silver lining to a black cloud. Though your partner is not there, you have all the time that you earlier used to spend with him/her. Utilize it in the best possible way. Here is what Henry David Thoreau says, “Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you’ve imagined.”

Here are quite a few ways that may help you utilize the newly gained time and independence. Once, the divorce proceedings are over, you may start off on a road to self discovery.

• Think Positively ‘You behave and act the way you think. Think positively. Also, talk positively. Look at the bright side of life. If an uncaring spouse has walked out of your life, it may do you some good. Take it like this that it’s better to live alone in peace rather than suffer a quarrelsome mate for the complete life. And who knows lady luck may smile at you? You may attract a worthy spouse in the future. Always hope for the best. Optimism enhances the will power. It’s definitely going to help you live a healthy, happy life.
• Do Not be Angry – Stop burning in anger. Fretting and fuming over a romance gone sour is only going to ruin your health by all means ’emotionally, physically, psychologically and also financially! A lovelorn employee is usually of no use. He simply fails to focus on work!
• Forget, if You Can’t Forgive – Besides, if you are too angry and in no mood to forgive your mate, forgetting him/her and living happily is the best way to send the message across that you do not care any more! It will only help you regain the self esteem in case your spouse divorced you to marry another.
• Do Not Take to Drinking – Others are not going to cry simply because you do. And what’s worse, if you take up to liquor, it’s not only your health, but your image among friends too, that suffers.
• Learn from Your Mistakes ‘Remember life is a long journey. People make mistakes. But the wiser ones learn from them. It only serves to make the journey a pleasant one. Try to think of what had gone wrong with your marriage. If you wish to marry again, make an honest effort not to repeat them.
• Consult a Psychologist ‘There is no harm in consulting a psychologist if you think you are too depressed because of divorce. Before the depression continues longer than usual and begins to effect your health, it’s best to consult the doctor. Remember that no one is perfect. And you are no exception. When you need help, seek it.

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